Truth Before All in Every Relationship
The cliches are truths that people don’t like. Today, I thought about the sentence: “If They Wanted to Be with you, They would be.”
It sounds standard, but it’s real. Communications nowadays are high-tech, and everyone can connect everywhere with others.
So, Why do Relationships fail?
The sentence: “If they wanted to be with you, they would be” is a clear answer to many questions like: “Why these people don’t call, text, or message me?” They’re just not interested, and it’s funny how many times that situation should be explained to everyone involved because people don’t like to accept the truth someone doesn’t care enough for them to call, text, or message.
The truth is those who don’t try to connect don’t care too much about the bond’s future.
It’s sad, but the attitude should be accepted, and the party that wants to feel special about certain someone should move toward those who show with actions they care.
Until then, people can find many hobbies and goals to pursue. That is important because the focus will be on another objective. People will not think about the disappointment and failure of a broken connection when their minds and hearts are engaged in a goal. It doesn’t matter what will be the new objective – fitness, diet, online business, writing a book, etc.
I choose traveling, online business, and writing a book. These activities keep me busy all day. When my brain is active, many plans are born in my head, and I follow them.
That doesn’t mean I am not feeling hurt, but it helps nothing. What happened played its role in my life, and there’s no way to turn back time. Since I have no chains to my past, various emotions, failures, and disappointments nevermore, my future seems better in the present.
Many forgotten thoughts in my mind arose: diet, property buying, visiting new places, creating videos for my Zumba training, learning to dance Mandala, going into the unknown, etc. Life is to live at its fullest, one way or another.
Pain, anger, disappointment, and betrayal of my trust made me stronger as a person who can proudly stand on her own two feet.
Keep searching and smiling for better, and heal as much time as is needed.
“Succes is not final; Failure is not fatal: It is the courage to continue that counts.” 