Universe Regulates People’s Fast Walk

Because

Humans Do Not Think When They Want to Achieve Results Fast.

When I was an active member of a writing platform called Medium, undoubtedly, my best post was “Universe has a weird sense of humor.”

Why do I tell you that?

I am on the same life train stop today since I overestimated my abilities.

Once again, I am physically sick because I got too much work on my shoulders, and my body can not take the stress of my new daily routine. It seems I should rearrange it. When something is too much, Universe regulates it one way or another.

I support the idea of new changes with all my heart, but they should balance reality and imagination.

Recently I told one of my friends that the right time comes when the momentum is ready, and going too fast will bring Universe’s wrath. As usual, I gave good advice to others which I do not follow for myself. That is the main people: giving bits of advice they do not try, or unwanted ones.

Since I already spoke for the Universe’s weird sense of humor, now is the time to understand why Cosmos stops people when they are going too fast in their lives. As usual, I give only my example because I do not know what other people have been through in their lives. Feel free to share if you want in the comments. Let’s keep writing and reading now.

Giving Bits Of Advice People Do Not Try

People are the best at advising others. But when it comes to their lives, things are different. If the advice is untried, it is uncertain how it will work out for the other person. I try to give experience advice, and if not, start doing it with the advised friend. That builds a better bond between two people. Giving pieces of wisdom without practice makes the listeners bored. Students know what it feels like to listen to professors’ theories.

Giving Unwanted Pieces of Advice

My mistake is trying to save people when they do not even ask for it. I learned the hard way that “the savior” attitude is not a good base for any relationship. As time goes by, other people start to make the saver feel guilty and break his self-confidence.

It is challenging to stop doing that because kindness and compassion can not be resisted. Here come the boundaries people should learn to draw between themselves and others.

There is an Asian saying that reminds me about limits: “Between two people there are ten steps. When you do your five and meet no one, go back.” It is one of my life’s mottos.

I am going back to the People’s Fast Walk idea.

That was my routine before I become sick: too much work for a limited time, no proper meals, and not enough relaxation. I have done all that because I wanted results immediately, but did not understand I lack a lot to keep up with the aftermath. Certain skills should be improved for my success in the long-term, and they become perfect with more investment time that can’t happen too fast. Here are my examples.

Four times weekly Zumba training while Teachers suggested two per week for new instructors

That works for any sport if the person has enough stamina, nutrition, time, and a great fitness form that builds with time and patience I lack. It is better to listen to more experienced people about how a certain cycle works.

Muscles are not robotic and need a break, otherwise, sportsmen can lose their fit for a long time. I went to the maximum of training on my first Zumba Instructor month, but I still lack some steps. So, I reduced my classes to two per week. I need to take my time learning properly the steps I will teach. When there is no readiness to take the sport’s blow, is better to train more.

Wrote daily on my blog, while I was on full-time work before the monitor, without a break.

I love writing so much that I forgot to eat or sleep sometimes. When I was on a full-time job that I took a break from recently, I worked with computer programs all day long. My eyes and mind were stressed, health started to worsen. I wrote when I came back home after I made dinner for the kid, using the small amount of time before Zumba classes and making my immunity fall.

I did not think about anything else outside the financial results and kept my discipline on high price. That started to cost me my well-being and losing my child’s attention. I still do not have much money from my side hustles, but with my sickness, I can make an accurate action plan. That was the stopping reason Universe gave me.

Weekends spent before the monitor again, writing the Poetry Book

Before my kid woke up, I wrote, and after she went to bed, I did it again. I couldn’t sleep enough time because I was tired. That made me sour and unattentive to my child and outlook.

When I saw myself in the mirror after two weeks of that schedule, I was highly disappointed by my assertiveness’s amiss. I immediately put on makeup and took the kid out to the zoo to compensate for missed time. Then I got the flu to be put back into reality. I realize my wrongdoings and am thankful for my sickness.

I see now clear and made better life management.

In my country, there is a saying: “Good things happen slowly,” and I forget that every time I become fired up for my passions. Indeed, a slower pace wins the race in the long term. Patience is needed and is what I have to learn.