Light In The Love’s Tunnel

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Light In The Love’s Tunnel

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There Is Still Hope For True Love.

I am very excited these days because I started my Zumba instructor training. That changed my mindset in so positive-emotional wave that I can not sleep thinking about the steps I will show in my future Zumba class.

 I spend a lot of time outside to recharge because I work on my Poetry book “Mori Monologues” and write actively.

The recent posts I have read online were only about disappointing dating experiences. I also have some, but I do not care about them anymore since my mind occupies with Zumba and Poetry.

I saw rays of hope for true love the last few days when I was out to listen to live music, and I have met new people in real life.

Last Friday, I went to a live music place in my town. A famous Bulgarian singer sang. His niece was there with her boyfriend. She stepped on the stage, singing and playing the guitar. To my taste, the girl was not enough emotionally into her songs and I didn’t feel her. The people in the cafe left, but she enjoyed her performance.

The thing that amazed me that evening was the Devotion I saw in that girl’s boyfriend. He left everything else and concentrated on her performance, making a video of her best moment on the stage. He supported her with every fiber of his body. I loved the image of both persons in love.
The girl sang three songs, and they hugged and held hands. It was a unique experience for me as a skeptical romanticist that there is still true love somewhere out there and humanity.

That made me happy. I never envy people in love. I applaud their happiness. It makes me believe that I can find true love treasure too.

The story I heard last weekend about love’s light tunnel hope made me speechless too.

I went out with the mind to dance Salsa.

Sunday and Tuesday in my Seatown, there is a free Salsa party. In the club, that night were no dancers. I and my friend went to an unusual place.

I do not drink beer in the pubs, but still, they are popular. I ordered my glass of rose wine.

There were no free places, and a man and a woman invited us to join them because they would like to go soon. We started the casual talk, and both people did not go. The woman was older than the man, and I liked him as a person, thinking he was her friend. He said they both are married.

Wow! I was amazed by the pride I felt when he said that. In true love, there is no age difference.

It was fascinating for me, who had always evaded marriage because my parent’s family was broken when I was young.
That man and his woman have 21 years difference, and it was my first-time experience communicating with that type of couple. I was surprised by how deep their love is despite the age difference.

I have never seen a thing like that in a similar age couple, and even in the standard young girl-older gentleman pair.

These two people connected on a deep level I could not imagine since I never felt it. After so many years together they still keep their flame toward each other. Looking into each other’s eyes they knew every single thought they had and the tenderness surrounding them. They indeed complemented each other in many fields.

I was shocked in a good way where True Love finding is.

I started to think about where I live.

Are they some aliens or live in another universe?

These days I was a witness to true love I never imagined I would see.
Of course, that inspired me to write more love and humanity stories because there is still a light of hope for human salvation before they become materialistic robots.
I know it may sound weird, but I always choose and will keep doing it – to look at the bright side of the situation when meeting new people.
Many persons I know, speak only for interests when it comes to love. I am a believer that it is not always about interest when feelings are involved.

I prefer being disappointed by my naive belief in the good of people and will not change that. It is my core and the foundation I built my character.

Key takes /if someone cares about them/ for the Love’s tunnel:

*Life is happening outside virtual reality, and true love is there.
*Changing mindset opens new eyes and doors to the human soul that are unknown.
* People should drop off the act of false friendliness and become sincere involved with others’ lives they meet in reality.

Thank you for reading, and I am going off to my real Zumba life-changing experience that led me outside the box of virtual situations.
The disappointing romantic experience stopped me from living my life. But, they are part of my past, and I embrace them with pride because they made me who I am today.

That is a revised post.

 

Finding The Mind’s Peace

The last months were harsh for me.

With too much thinking, writing, and crying, I found what life lessons I had learned from the situations I bumped into. I am proud I overcame all that, which is why I want to share some pieces of my wisdom. Everyone can find themselves in my shoes. We all share the same burden of daily life, fighting for our private and personal balance.
The key to a lifestyle’s success lies in the mind’s peace and sincere communication.
I tell more about both aspects today based on my ordinary human experience. If I can do what I do, you can do it too.


First of all, as an introvert, I think a lot about what went wrong, and I wrote down the pluses and minuses of what I gained.

When it comes to an unsuccessful relationship, as it was for me, I wrote about the good and the worse sides of my partner and how did I feel. I also wrote my joyful and sad memories. That helps to define where you stand because if the feeling of unhappiness stays for a long time, killing you inside is a clear sign you’re not on the right track.

I know how painful it’s to break up with someone you love, but your soul cries out loud to do it because you do not recognize yourself anymore. That leads to self-hate and low self-esteem, and your love toward others fades away when that is present. People become nervous, depressed, and unwilling to do anything.
After writing it all down, the time for action comes. Usually, most people stay without action because they fear they can survive. It seems impossible at first. But, after gaining the courage to do the first step, things begin to clear up. Doing the small step can take even years but human instincts to feel appreciated are stronger than self-destruction. Right said it is inevitable to stay at the bottom of your life.

But, should you wait to go to the bottom and dig there, or should you try to swim outside the dark life’s ocean before drowning?


However, it was hard for me to adapt to the new situation I faced, in the first two weeks. But, slowly, I started to accept the weight of my choice, and I knew I was on the right and better track in my life. I visited many churches, and I walked many miles, thinking about how things in my life are and how they will be from now on. I looked for inspiration to move on in different things – numerology, astrology, and even talking with animals, especially cats.

By the way, it is good to know that animals are wearing angels’ spirits.

As time went by, I found myself coming back to the old hobbies that I had forgotten.

The disregard for yourself shows no respect toward your and others’ interests.
The well-mannered partner will respect your interests and cherish them, but only if you do the same toward him.

People should remember that when times are hard, to be active and busy to go painlessly through them.


Sport is a great option to move on – in my case, I walked, and I still walk, 7 km per day to free my mind from worries. My online Zumba trainer Irene says that: “When times are hard, let’s dance through them.” She is right because all people need energy.

When the brain is busy, there is no time to get depressed, and there is not much choice. Feeling the sadness and pain will not fade away from the mind, but they can heal with business. The broken heart also heals faster when people have their goals to achieve.

In my case, I wanted to lose weight, and I did it – ten kg down. Another of my goal was to start competing in international writing contests. I dreamed of that for too long. Today, I have had around twenty competition entries for the last four months.

All of that made me find peace in my mind.


Whatever you do, keep moving. That is the key to mind’s peace, because all the time you try something new, you learn a lot. You accept your weird sides and interests.

That is the key to being sincere toward yourself.


Once people accept their odds and curiosities, they achieve self-love and learn to give love to others.

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After finding the mind’s peace, people become true to themselves. They could be sincere with themselves and the others they care about in their lives.

Remember, if you want to have a real friend, be real too.


Sincere communication means no lies, even white ones. They serve no good to anybody. Sooner or later, telling the untruth will be found out. Actions never lie, and if there is no genuine care between two persons, it will reveal. Usually, after the truth is found out, relationships of any kind break up.

Is it too high a risk for lacking sincerity, is it not?

In my opinion, communication should be clear and accepting. No one is ideal, but when two imperfect persons meet, they can make a perfect relationship by complementing each other in business and friendship partnerships. My companionship with my former lovers is better now because I learned to accept people as they are.

I do not put the guilt only on myself. When a relationship breaks, the fault is on both sides and their unwillingness to work things out or change themselves for the better. If people do not change, they need to compromise to keep things going smoothly. If people can’t understand each other, they should accept themselves. All of that can happen with sincerity and no false talking.
Sayings words that are wanted to be heard by the interlocutors also don’t work. It is a lie to say what the other person wants to hear. That is used well in trading.

But, is a relationship between friends or lovers a trade?


The main point of my post today is to make you think.

Learning the life lessons, staying in solitude, going through deep pain – all of that leads to a new you and self-love.

Take time, think deeply, and see, are you happy where you are today?

Are you true to yourself and your partner or friend?

Are you not losing yourselves between society’s or partnership’s influences?

Are you genuine and authentic, or do you play dual to live delusional you’re successful?

Are you human, or are you a robot programmed by money-oriented things?


That will give the answers to your mind’s peace and sincerity in communication.

Have a great Day of Celebration!

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