Universe Regulates People’s Fast Walk

Universe Regulates People

Universe Regulates People’s Fast Walk

Because

Humans Do Not Think When They Want to Achieve Results Fast.

When I was an active member of a writing platform called Medium, undoubtedly, my best post was “Universe has a weird sense of humor.”

Why do I tell you that?

 I am on the same life train stop today since I overestimated my abilities.

Once again, I am physically sick because I got too much work on my shoulders, and my body can not take the stress of my new daily routine. It seems I should rearrange it. When something is too much, Universe regulates it one way or another.

I support the idea of new changes with all my heart, but they should balance reality and imagination.

Recently I told one of my friends that the right time comes when the momentum is ready, and going too fast will bring Universe’s wrath. As usual, I gave good advice to others which I do not follow for myself. That is the main people: giving bits of advice they do not try, or unwanted ones.

Since I already spoke for the Universe’s weird sense of humor, now is the time to understand why Cosmos stops people when they are going too fast in their lives. As usual, I give only my example because I do not know what other people have been through in their lives. Feel free to share if you want in the comments. Let’s keep writing and reading now.

Giving Bits Of Advice People Do Not Try

People are the best at advising others. But when it comes to their lives, things are different. If the advice is untried, it is uncertain how it will work out for the other person. I try to give experience advice, and if not, start doing it with the advised friend. That builds a better bond between two people. Giving pieces of wisdom without practice makes the listeners bored. Students know what it feels like to listen to professors’ theories.

Giving Unwanted Pieces of Advice

My mistake is trying to save people when they do not even ask for it. I learned the hard way that “the savior” attitude is not a good base for any relationship. As time goes by, other people start to make the saver feel guilty and break his self-confidence.

It is challenging to stop doing that because kindness and compassion can not be resisted. Here come the boundaries people should learn to draw between themselves and others.

There is an Asian saying that reminds me about limits: “Between two people there are ten steps. When you do your five and meet no one, go back.” It is one of my life’s mottos.

I am going back to the People’s Fast Walk idea.

That was my routine before I become sick: too much work for a limited time, no proper meals, and not enough relaxation. I have done all that because I wanted results immediately, but did not understand I lack a lot to keep up with the aftermath. Certain skills should be improved for my success in the long-term, and they become perfect with more investment time that can’t happen too fast. Here are my examples.

Four times weekly Zumba training while Teachers suggested two per week for new instructors

That works for any sport if the person has enough stamina, nutrition, time, and a great fitness form that builds with time and patience I lack. It is better to listen to more experienced people about how a certain cycle works.

Muscles are not robotic and need a break, otherwise, sportsmen can lose their fit for a long time.  I went to the maximum of training on my first Zumba Instructor month, but I still lack some steps. So, I reduced my classes to two per week. I need to take my time learning properly the steps I will teach. When there is no readiness to take the sport’s blow, is better to train more.

Wrote daily on my blog, while I was on full-time work before the monitor, without a break.

I love writing so much that I forgot to eat or sleep sometimes.  When I was on a full-time job that I took a break from recently, I worked with computer programs all day long. My eyes and mind were stressed, health started to worsen. I wrote when I came back home after I made dinner for the kid, using the small amount of time before Zumba classes and making my immunity fall.

I did not think about anything else outside the financial results and kept my discipline on high price. That started to cost me my well-being and losing my child’s attention. I still do not have much money from my side hustles, but with my sickness, I can make an accurate action plan. That was the stopping reason Universe gave me.

Weekends spent before the monitor again, writing the Poetry Book

Before my kid woke up, I wrote, and after she went to bed, I did it again. I couldn’t sleep enough time because I was tired. That made me sour and unattentive to my child and outlook.

When I saw myself in the mirror after two weeks of that schedule, I was highly disappointed by my assertiveness’s amiss.  I immediately put on makeup and took the kid out to the zoo to compensate for missed time. Then I got the flu to be put back into reality. I realize my wrongdoings and am thankful for my sickness.

I see now clear and made better life management.

In my country, there is a saying: “Good things happen slowly,” and I forget that every time I become fired up for my passions. Indeed, a slower pace wins the race in the long term. Patience is needed and is what I have to learn.

The universe regulates people’s fast walking because is the best to do things when is their time.

 

 

 

 

The Fight With Negation’s Ants

Negation

The Fight With Negation’s Ants

Is Like The Negativity Daily

Last few months, I had unusual guests in my home – ants. I am unsure where they came from, but the fact they are still there is disturbing. The ants are many, and I could not kill them until yesterday. Calling the insects’ negation’s ants rang into my head that they can be acknowledged as people in my life, who have similar skills to them. Hungry for intrigues as the ants are hungry for food.

Many days I cleaned thoroughly to show respect, and politeness to these little living beings, hoping they will fade away, but they did not.  I always have been thinking everything around me deserves to live. But sometimes,  forced clearance should be done. That is similar to cutting wood parts for them to grow again.

After a few weeks of the unfulfilling fight with negation’s ants, I decided to use poison.

The ants died like my connections with negative people who were in my life too long.  The metaphorical venom I used to kill negativity in my daily routine was telling the truth and dropping the polite act. Many psychologists, including me, support the theory people should express their feelings and be rude if needed. Of course, when there is conflict and rudeness, the voice’s tone is a must because nobody wants to be shouted at.

What is The Point Of The Fight With Negation’s Ants in Life?

I put it simply. It is the survival of self-confidence because when going into people’s negativity, the mind becomes the same as theirs.

A long time ago, I have read business development books that taught me to create a circle with successful people to become like them. But today, I see that as falseness and a people-pleasing attitude. Both of these qualities do not fit into my soul and heart.

After many years, I stopped working in the business field, read positive-thinking books, and joined a few personal development courses. They made me understand that not successful people save the day, but the positive ones.

Unfortunately, not many humans are affirmative and the negation’s ants are stubborn to fight.

During these few months with the guests in my home, I understood that is better to cut once and for all the uninspiring connections. Hiding under the politeness’s rug did not resolve my ant’s problem. Negation crawled daily and became strong. That kept me away from lying on my yoga carpet and doing mediation. The same goes for me living freely and with attitude.

The character attracts similar people, but ants turn them off. It is better to be alone without ants than to live with unwanted guests that rob your freedom.

The fear of ants made me realize I act the same way with the people in my life. That had to stop. I did little steps toward killing my life’s negativity to go on forward. The small victories I had along the way, mutated into goals, for which I did an action plan to follow. That made me realize my potential and do the needed sacrifices. It is not a secret that risk-taker wins a lesson or achievement.

Negation’s ants and negativity’s people’s influence should be removed from everyone’s life.

 

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