Universe Regulates People’s Fast Walk

Because

Humans Do Not Think When They Want to Achieve Results Fast.

When I was an active member of a writing platform called Medium, undoubtedly, my best post was “Universe has a weird sense of humor.”

Why do I tell you that?

I am on the same life train stop today since I overestimated my abilities.

Once again, I am physically sick because I got too much work on my shoulders, and my body can not take the stress of my new daily routine. It seems I should rearrange it. When something is too much, Universe regulates it one way or another.

I support the idea of new changes with all my heart, but they should balance reality and imagination.

Recently I told one of my friends that the right time comes when the momentum is ready, and going too fast will bring Universe’s wrath. As usual, I gave good advice to others which I do not follow for myself. That is the main people: giving bits of advice they do not try, or unwanted ones.

Since I already spoke for the Universe’s weird sense of humor, now is the time to understand why Cosmos stops people when they are going too fast in their lives. As usual, I give only my example because I do not know what other people have been through in their lives. Feel free to share if you want in the comments. Let’s keep writing and reading now.

Giving Bits Of Advice People Do Not Try

People are the best at advising others. But when it comes to their lives, things are different. If the advice is untried, it is uncertain how it will work out for the other person. I try to give experience advice, and if not, start doing it with the advised friend. That builds a better bond between two people. Giving pieces of wisdom without practice makes the listeners bored. Students know what it feels like to listen to professors’ theories.

Giving Unwanted Pieces of Advice

My mistake is trying to save people when they do not even ask for it. I learned the hard way that “the savior” attitude is not a good base for any relationship. As time goes by, other people start to make the saver feel guilty and break his self-confidence.

It is challenging to stop doing that because kindness and compassion can not be resisted. Here come the boundaries people should learn to draw between themselves and others.

There is an Asian saying that reminds me about limits: “Between two people there are ten steps. When you do your five and meet no one, go back.” It is one of my life’s mottos.

I am going back to the People’s Fast Walk idea.

That was my routine before I become sick: too much work for a limited time, no proper meals, and not enough relaxation. I have done all that because I wanted results immediately, but did not understand I lack a lot to keep up with the aftermath. Certain skills should be improved for my success in the long-term, and they become perfect with more investment time that can’t happen too fast. Here are my examples.

Four times weekly Zumba training while Teachers suggested two per week for new instructors

That works for any sport if the person has enough stamina, nutrition, time, and a great fitness form that builds with time and patience I lack. It is better to listen to more experienced people about how a certain cycle works.

Muscles are not robotic and need a break, otherwise, sportsmen can lose their fit for a long time. I went to the maximum of training on my first Zumba Instructor month, but I still lack some steps. So, I reduced my classes to two per week. I need to take my time learning properly the steps I will teach. When there is no readiness to take the sport’s blow, is better to train more.

Wrote daily on my blog, while I was on full-time work before the monitor, without a break.

I love writing so much that I forgot to eat or sleep sometimes. When I was on a full-time job that I took a break from recently, I worked with computer programs all day long. My eyes and mind were stressed, health started to worsen. I wrote when I came back home after I made dinner for the kid, using the small amount of time before Zumba classes and making my immunity fall.

I did not think about anything else outside the financial results and kept my discipline on high price. That started to cost me my well-being and losing my child’s attention. I still do not have much money from my side hustles, but with my sickness, I can make an accurate action plan. That was the stopping reason Universe gave me.

Weekends spent before the monitor again, writing the Poetry Book

Before my kid woke up, I wrote, and after she went to bed, I did it again. I couldn’t sleep enough time because I was tired. That made me sour and unattentive to my child and outlook.

When I saw myself in the mirror after two weeks of that schedule, I was highly disappointed by my assertiveness’s amiss. I immediately put on makeup and took the kid out to the zoo to compensate for missed time. Then I got the flu to be put back into reality. I realize my wrongdoings and am thankful for my sickness.

I see now clear and made better life management.

In my country, there is a saying: “Good things happen slowly,” and I forget that every time I become fired up for my passions. Indeed, a slower pace wins the race in the long term. Patience is needed and is what I have to learn.

The universe regulates people’s fast walking because is the best to do things when is their time.

Why Do Daily Blog Posts Kill The Writing Spark?

That Is A Question That Blurred The Line between Creativity And Obligation.

On the other writing platforms, there was a discussion between writers for daily or weekly blog posts. The first group of bloggers insisted people should write daily a few posts. The second group replied one to two times writing per week is enough. Here I write what I think.

I am a perfectionist-oriented person who is a non-English speaker. I post three times weekly, but I write daily on my blog. My reasons for doing that are time-consuming, looking at the details, and keeping the readers curious. In my life, I am the same—no half-done things.

Blog Posts Are Time-Consuming

For me, as a non-English speaker, takes up to 4 hours to write a blog post after doing research, Grammarly check, translating words, and putting down what I think on the WordPress draft. I re-read my work at least 2 times. That makes me sure there are not many errors because I know how irritating is to read poor grammar articles. Usually, I write my first blog post drafts on the weekend and edit them daily. I roster the articles for publishing on the weekdays, after my full-time job, and before Zumba live class. These routines created my weekly writing schedule. I suggest creating to-do lists because that makes people’s coordination easier. For me, it works great, and sharing my experience brings me happiness.

I have many obligations and time management is a must in my life. I believe it is like that for everyone who is not lazy and wants to achieve goals. It doesn’t matter how stressful the working day was, discipline always wins for long-term success. I know my writing speed is not like that of English speakers, but I invest my time into every post I write.

I believe quality wins over quantity because when I receive daily emails for my followed blogs, I see how they sink without the spark from the first time I subscribed.

Daily Writing of Blog Posts in a limited time brings no good.

The Writing Spark is Killed By The Devil When Not Looking At The Details.

There is a saying in my country: “The Devil lies in the details,” and I agree. Even the most meaningful article looks shabby when the details like fonts, subheadings, SEO, and easy reading ability are not met. I become like the Yoast SEO queen because my daily improvement is a must to become a better blogger. I gave a lot of money to WordPress, but I have cultivated many new skills. People learn until they are alive, and I have no regrets about giving away my wealth for my business.

After I create my blog posts for the week, I edit them from the font through SEO and Social Media links. If I do not look at the details, that blog will fade away like my old ones. For a long time, I was blogging on different platforms through different web hosts, but I never dug deep into the topics above, because I cared only about my writing.

Today, I see how wrong I was before and why blogging’s success was not on my side.

The details of every article are important as the content itself. The blog post may take more time to finish and publish, but it is worth the work, in my opinion. I feel proud when I see how my work looks on the site I created. Underestimating the little details brings no pleasure into the reader’s eyes.

Daily Blog Posts do not keep readers’ curiosity – they give expectations, and if not fulfilled – boredom.

Right said I do not like to receive daily blog posts from the bloggers I follow. As time goes by, they start to overwhelm me and become boring. I delete many daily post newsletters from my e-mail. In my opinion, daily blogging makes the blog sink.

I like to be impatient and curious when it comes to reading. That is one of the reasons to post only three times per week. I believe a well-written and informative article is more precious than a daily short posting. Of course, bloggers have their strategy if they treat their blog as a business or brand. Daily writing is a must for everyone involved in the publishing industry, but daily publication is a different topic.

I might look stiff to many readers, but I prefer slower work interest’s build than faster killing the curiosity’s spark.

These three points are my reasons for not posting daily on the blog. I think it works better for writers and readers when there is balance and space to understand the blog post. Professional sites come with rare posting – that is the truth I believe.

The obligation to write is the same as working full-time, with no idea about moving out of that circle. It is important to put love into everything people do, especially when it comes to writing or dancing.